Somehow we have a two year old! I swear it feels like just yesterday we were bringing H home from the hospital and now he’s this sweet, funny, curious, smart toddler. It’s cliche, but it truly does go by so fast! I though it would be fun to share 5 things I’ve learned in my first 2 years of motherhood in honour of his birthday:
Maternal Instincts are Real
I remember being pregnant and worrying they wouldn’t kick in. I didn’t have a lot of experience with kids and I wasn’t feeling very confident in my ability to be a mom. They kicked in immediately though and I’m a firm believer in every mother is the best mother for their baby. Outside advice can be nice when it’s wanted, but no one knows your baby the way you do. Trust in your abilities a little more and try to tune out the outside noise; all babies are different!
Comparison is the Thief of Joy
It can be so hard not to feel discouraged when other babies are hitting milestones before your baby, but comparing only makes things worse. Babies develop at different rates and that’s okay! Of course reach out to your doctor if you think something is wrong, but be sure to show yourself some grace as it’s likely nothing you’re doing wrong.
Patience
Okay, I’m not perfect when it comes to patience, but I’m a lot better than I once was before motherhood! I’ve embraced slowing down more and practicing patience, especially now that I have a toddler. He’s so curious and wants to learn. This means simple tasks often take longer, but how else is he going to learn? Practicing patience is so important when teaching H something new and something I really prioritize to help build his confidence.
How to Stop People Pleasing
Before having my son, I was a notorious people pleaser. In having him, something shifted and I found it easier to start saying no when it came to the best interest of my son. This has definitely ruffled some feathers among people who have a hard time respecting my boundaries, but I’m getting better about not caring. My job is to keep H safe, healthy, and happy.
Time Flies
The second H was placed in my arms, it was pure bliss. I loved him instantly and it only continues to grow. He’s somehow 2 now and I can’t believe it. It’s going by so fast which is why it’s so important for me to soak up as much of this journey as I possibly can.
